Going Broke After A Breakup
Advice / / Jun 22, 2017
You finally found the perfect daddy. Someone that you are absolutely comfortable with and the arrangement is perfect. He gets what he wants and you get what you want. You enjoyed all the benefits and the highlife he provided. Everything was perfect up to a point when he said “I think it is time we go separate ways, I want us to break-up”.
From the moment you hear “break-up”, thoughts and emotions will come rushing down on you. You will start to think if you are the reason or perhxaps something you did why he is asking to break up the arrangement. But most of all, you start to think about the benefits that are about to say goodbye.
After a hug and a kiss on the cheek, he dropped you off to your apartment. You lay down on your bed and starts thinking about your finances. Every drop of allowance he gave you went to bars, salons, spa, and other things that you bought personally with what he gave you. You look at your wallet and saw a few hundred dollars and knew it will not last that long after you got used to a well provided lifestyle.
Ladies, this is what we call going broke after a break up and this is what every sugar baby should avoid.
Bear in mind that a sugar relationship is transactional and like any other relationship, it can end abruptly. If he no longer gets satisfied with the relationship or sees it getting a bit dim, he can break it off anytime and find a new sugar baby. This will leave you on your own.
Whenever your daddy provides you an allowance, always keep some as savings. Open a bank account or put it in a piggy bank, it doesn’t matter where you put it as long as you do not spend it all. There is no guarantee that he will stay with you for a straight five or ten years and saving up is the best thing to do.
“But he said I shouldn’t worry about my finances ever again”.
Even if he said and promised that to you, and yes he definitely can magically erase your financial issues, keeping a savings account is not about him and his capability to provide, it’s about you.
The feeling of satisfaction that you are financially responsible of the money that comes into your way is enough reason for you to save it up.
Besides, there is no assurance that after a break-up you will find a new daddy in a few days, unless you are the type of sugar baby that every guy is after. Bottom line is, it is ideal to be prepared before a storm than to run around getting yourself armed at the moment when disaster already struck.
Remember that being a sugar baby requires quick thinking and negotiation techniques. You have to be sexy, beautiful and at the same time smart, reliable, and self-sufficient when left alone.